10 tips for men to hook up
Hookups (or one-night stands) are a fantastic idea that most men fantasize about. While some men may only dream of the possibility, others are more realistic. Some men are lucky enough to get hooked up occasionally. Other men have the combination of good looks, debonair, and luck that allows them to enjoy hookups regularly. It is possible to make hookups more likely for men who want to feel the thrill and intrigue of a good hookup.
One-night stands and great hookups can be hard to achieve because there are so many things that could go wrong between the first hello of the next. With the right attitude and preparation, you can make a great hookup. Take these ten tips as a guideline and you'll be ready for intense, exciting casual sex.
Do your best. Women looking to hook up are more concerned about their looks than their personalities. Make sure you are presentable and look professional. Be friendly and smile whether she approaches you. Show interest in her and listen to what she has.
Look for the right people - there are some events that are more likely to bring you a hookup. You can meet potential hookup partners at events such as weddings, birthdays, dance clubs and nightclubs or romantic vacation destinations like the beach. You should avoid looking for partners at work, formal dinner parties, and family gatherings.
Pay attention to her actions. You're in prime position. Now look for the girl that is bright, dancing, flirting and making eye contact with others. If she seems approachable, open-minded, playful, and searching for something, it could be you. With confidence, approach her and make a simple introduction. There is nothing too witty or corny about this. Next, pay close attention to what she says and then follow her lead. Is she happy to smile, express excitement, or keep her eyes on you? That's a great start. Is she disinterested or seems short-tempered or distracted? Let's move on.
Get to know one another - before you get into bed, take some time for this. There is no need to give out too much personal information. However, it is worth getting to know a bit about your potential partner. Asking about her dreams is a great way to get the ball rolling and help you understand what she might be interested. Mutual respect - Even for a hookup or a one-night-stand, treat your partner with respect. Both of you are in this for the enjoyment. Enjoy it, but be respectful. Treat them the way you would want to be treated.
Make it fun for her, too! Hookups are often viewed by men as one-dimensional. They are there for their satisfaction and pleasure. There are two of you in bed. Ask her what she loves and give her special attention. If she is happy, you'll have a better time.
Take some time afterwards - don’t just leave the room after the activities are finished. Ask her if she would like to spend more time with you. More women than men prefer to spend more time together afterwards. Even if you are just going to bed together, have a good time and share some non-sexual moments before departing with grace.
Be honest. Tell yourself what you want and expect. Ask her. Understanding what you want will prevent disappointments later. Tell her if you don't want to be more than a hookup. Make sure you have a spare condom with you in case you need it. It is not a good idea to ignore your needs and be at risk of getting an STD. Be smart and prepared.
Be open to exploring other possibilities - if you feel that you two are compatible and think there may be more to it, then be open to the idea. Your partner might not feel the exact same way. Let them know and be open for their responses.